Two weeks later, I figured it out the hard way, though I had suspected what had happened before that. I'm still with my wife, because of my 5 y/o daughter. Some women don't care if their husbands go out and get massages with happy endings, believe it or not.There is no absolute line that applies to all relationships. One easy general rule: if you don't want to tell your spouse about it, you've gone too far.We've seen literally thousands of comments and social media posts about the tangled web of former CIA Director David Petraeus' career-ending affair.Readers are talking about politics, the timing of Petraeus' announcement and possible long-term impact." Perhaps the question is, "What is the line of infidelity crossed at which point your relationship would not likely be restored?
Petraeus and others of his status/strata are all strong-willed and certainly not weak-minded individuals and they choose this disastrous course all the freaking time.
Relationships are sacred and should be treated as such. Get real - evil thoughts only turn to actions for those who are weak-minded.
If every idea or thought turned into a reality, we'd have a lot more millionares and a lot fewer self-help books.
The word faithful implies that you have a strong unwielding FAITH in your relationship. But presence in a relationship is less tangible, but much more important. It will psychologically devastate you because of having to hide the secret always, and it will destroy her and your family if it was discovered. This includes watching porn or even flirting with another woman in a bar away from your wife.
My wife came back from going out with a friend to hear music at a club almost a year ago.