Check your own issues with fatness before telling me to check mine.
I don't know what the motivation is for guys who try to get me on their shoulders at concerts or attempt to lift me gently into bed.
Online dating is rough enough without some guy responding to a message by saying "hit the gym and then we'll talk" (totally true, totally happened to me.) These answers reinforced what I already knew to be true: We have to change the way we treat fat women.
If I try to talk to you about fatphobia, about discrimination, about the challenges I face as a fat woman in the world, please don't try to comfort me by telling me people don't mean it, that maybe I'm misreading the situation, the the world isn't out to get me.
Whether or not fat hatred is malicious, it's still harmful.
In Woo Plus, connecting with anyone is comfortable and safe. I found a gentleman here who is really nice and definitely my type.
Thank you for helping me find a gorgeous girl here!! It was love at first sight, and he proposed to me six weeks later.
On the one hand, as a sex writer, I understand that people are attracted to different things, so I wanted to keep an open mind.