So if you are using No Contact for the right purpose, which is to heal yourself, you may be happy to find that your boyfriend has started to miss after after these few weeks of no contact, especially if you want him back too.And because you have used No Contact for the right purpose, you are starting to feel better. You will be in a much better position to connect with your boyfriend.You will keep on asking yourself whether the no contact is working. When you keep on asking yourself whether your ex boyfriend is missing you, how are you going to heal?You are just going to feel worse with all these internal dialogue going on in your head. Now, I want to make sure that you understand this very clearly. It is how you use No Contact that makes the difference! If you are simply using No contact to heal yourself and recover from the break up without worrying about whether your ex boyfriend is missing you, you are going to feel so much better. If you are using No contact to make your ex boyfriend miss you, you are trying to play games. But your mindset is going to determine whether you are going to feel better or worse.On the other hand, if your boyfriend has no intention to get back with you in the first place, no amount of no contact is going to make him miss you.
Hopefully, you will not get involved in those games.
I find it really weird when some “relationship gurus” say that in order to get your ex back, you need to make him miss you. There are a few key areas you need to focus on in order to save your relationship. Making your ex boyfriend miss you is definitely not one of them. If you have been in several relationships in the past, I am sure there are some exes that you do miss from time to time. You are here probably because you want your ex back.
After all, just because your ex misses you doesn’t mean he want you back. However, you have absolutely no intention of getting back together with them. And I am here to tell you that making your ex miss you is the wrong strategy to focus on.
Third, just because he misses you doesn’t mean he want to get back together with you.
I know all these may sound confusing to you right now. If you have read the other articles on my site, you will know that I discourage my readers from playing mind games and using manipulation tactics to save a relationship. My hope is to lead you away from playing manipulative mind games that can end up hurting yourself and your relationship. 90% of the sites I came across were recommending “The No Contact Rule” to get your ex boyfriend to miss you. There is no way you can control when your ex will start to yearn for you.
I just want to point out the various possibilities to you so that while you are hoping for the best, you are prepared for the worst as well. Also, as mentioned earlier, there is no point getting him back if it is still the same old relationship because he will probably leave you again soon.